Thread:MsMidnightFrost/@comment-8014223-20150301021830/@comment-10746957-20150301033103

Fangirl111 wrote:

MsMidnightFrost wrote: I'm not refusing to apologize to you. If you want an apology right now, then you'll get one.

Ember and whoever else this may concern,

I understand that you're frustrated about this entire situation, and I feel that way too. This situation has gotten way out of hand in my opinion, and we need to resolve it together. I sincerely apologize that I somehow made you feel hurt. I truely never meant to do that to you and I promise that I won't happen again. As for the threads, I am also sorry for going off topic. I tend to get sidetracked without realizing it and I'm sorry that I have caused your threads to be shut down. I will do my best to make sure it doesn't happen again.

I hope you will accept this apology and that we will both take something away from this situation. If there is anything else that I missed, then I'm sorry for those things too.

- Candy I don't CARE about YOUR opinion. I CARE about an actual apology.

Now, Skye, THIS is PARTLY what I mean by a back-hanged apology, she says she's sorry, but she purposefully avoids saying what she's apologizing for, example: the gossiping. She sums it up in the last line, but refuses to SAY it. Ember,

When I said I was sorry for hurting your feelings, I meant the gossiping issue. The last line was to cover up for any other things I could have done that may have hurt you that I was unaware of.

Apologies are about being sorry about what you have done and what you felt during the whole thing. I wanted to let you know that the feelings of frustration were mutual. I wanted you to know that I understood how you felt and that I was approaching you the wrong way in my other apologies.