Thread:Nikki Van Davis/@comment-5952365-20140814223505/@comment-5952365-20140815192730

No, the questions are about something WAY different, but I can see which is obviously more important, so I'll ask about it after.

First of all, I suppose you've already seen what Ember said to you on Jack/Jack Frost page? Then you should have also seen my comment. I really do want you two to be friends, I already know Ember's side and why she's so mad, but I want your side of the story too. So, please tell me your side of what happened between you and Ember. And, if it makes you more comfortable, I can tell you my side as well (so it's fair and you're not the only one telling).

Okay, second, I don't think you quite understand...When you say you're "not good at Authority and breaking up fights so I'm not good Admin material", no. No. No. NOPE. Being an Admin is NOT "authority" or "breaking up fights" or "being in charge or the boss". It's not. It's literally giving someone a few extra buttons to help the Wiki grow and a shiny badge. That's basically it. No one is the "boss" or "authority", Wikis are community projects, no one "owns" a Wiki. (Which is why SOME ADMINS (not you) are really BAD (not you) and THINK they're the boss, but they're NOT!! (Again, not you. Oh, and no one here either.)) But really, there shouldn't really be anything stressful about a few extra buttons.. But it's not really about that, is it? So I still want your side of the story.

Alright, lastly, I suppose you also read the thread where Sib and Ember were talking on... (I'm assuming because you've said that you read Ember's conversations and by what you wrote ("I feel really guilty for blaming Ember for a ton of stuff that she never did" and "when Jack's Sister bullied Ember I could have stood up for her but I was afraid to (if by "too" you mean Ember was also scared then sorry, but you are very mistaken) and I ran away afraid" and "I hope Ember can forgive me" and "I'm EXTREMELY sorry to anyone I have offended or wrongly treated") you wouldn't know all that if you didn't read the thread) but you've seem to have forgotten what I told you. I said, DON'T make decisions when you're stressed, mad, or sad. It's the WORST thing you could do at that time and will only make things worse because chances are you'll regret the decision(s) you made later. Stop it. Chill out and stop worrying.

Also, I'm glad you're not leaving :)

PS: Sorry because this might make you mad, but I'm gonna tell Val not to do it.